Twin flame is an instant and very intense bond who both parties know will have a significant role to play in one another’s lives. A twin flame is a soul connection between two souls that come together to become the full embodiment of the divine masculine and divine feminine. This spiritual bond is formed between two people energetically through quantum entanglement and once formed; the connection is unbreakable. You’ll not meet your Twin by chance either. This fated pre-destined soul contract was put in place before birth. In most cases meeting a soul-mate is easier than meeting a Twin Flame, because meeting your Twin…is never without pain.
Not everyone is destined to meet their Twin Flame in this lifetime, though every person on the planet has one Twin counterpart in the present time, or passed to the other side. Upon meeting your Twin, it will feel like nothing you’ve experienced before in any other relationship. There is a familiarity upon meeting your Twin that can seem odd. You start to feel emotions that are foreign to you, and some, can even feel their Twin’s emotional body as if it was their own.
Before, during, and after meeting your Twin counterpart synchronicities start manifesting into your physical reality, and it always connects back to the Twin in some odd way. Perhaps with number sequences, songs on the radio, or seeing their name in places that are out of the ordinary. Twin's share commonalities that seem highly unusual in so called "normal or organic" relationships. But one thing is certain, all of these synchronic events will be out of the ordinary.
Twin's may share only a brief moment in time, but you'll always wait for their return, having the patience of a saint, while working on yourself more and more as each day goes by. This is not pinning away, it's different. A true Twin Flame will understand this.
Researching the word synchronicity, brings you to the subject of Twin Flames. You’ve been on your own healing journey, dealing with old past wounds, and during this period of separation with your Twin counterpart, you’ve kept the faith that one day they'll reach out again. Months and months go by…and then… they call.
This experience is called the Twin Flame runner/chaser dynamic. The runner and chaser dynamic is common in a Twin Flame relationship. The runner and chaser dynamic can change roles during the relationship. It happens when one partner may or may not be spiritually aware of what is happening to you, or in their own lives, and becomes very confused after meeting their counterpart, which can lead to the the runner escaping the confusion, by leaving abruptly. If you were to ask them “why?” They wouldn’t know, they'll just feel that something is “off.”
The running Twin does not understand what’s happening to them, or they may feel like they’re losing control. They don’t know what to do, so their natural reaction is to run away, and chasing after them only makes them run even more. Completing inner healing is crucial for this type of journey with a Twin counterpart, and it requires patience, and doing all of the necessary work on yourself must be completed or you will be forced into this continuous cycle of running/chasing.
There is a certain fated element to this type of connection. The overall template of a Twin Flame relationship seems very fated in many ways. It’s one of the most complicated, however most beautiful connections that we can experience in a lifetime. Some will question the validity of this type of connection, or think that it's BS. However, the concept is present in many cultures and has been for thousands of years. Perhaps the story of Adam and Eve is the original twin flame connection, perhaps.
In Chinese culture the name for twin flames is the red string of fate, it's an invisible red cord, tied to those destined to be together. Time can stretch or tangle the red cord, but the thread can never be severed.
We all have a other half. The term “finding our other half” comes from that concept. The term Twin Flame is derived from Greek mythology. It was said that humans were originally created with four arms and four legs, but Zeus, fearing their power, split them in half, sentencing them to spend the rest of their lives searching for their other half. Whether we believe in the concept of finding our other half or not, the theory of being split in half is a belief that reinforces the Twin Fame concept.
The Twin Flame experience will be nothing like anything you will have ever been through before. You'll learn the meaning of oneness, as you develop a deeper unconditional love for another human being and more compassionate love for yourself. How you choose to navigate the lessons you learn, messages you receive on your Twin Fame journey, is entirely up to you how you will process those. Each Twin has a different trajectory they will be on, and no two Twin couples will likely walk the same path. However, one thing is certain, once you are “awakened” by such a connection, your journey in life will never be the same.
Kris Embrey is the author of How To UnF*uck Your Vibration - The Twin Flame Guide, she is also the author of Tell Me You Want Me and Till The Other Side of Time.
You can find her books at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and tellmeyouwantme.com